Hello Folks,Well, I took a break, and now I am back with a vengeance. You guys have obviously been busy, and I dont have time to read everything in detail, I have scanned most of the posts.
Something struck me while scanning, someone was using the words Mind Numbed Cultist as a way of saying they are not that.
I would like to look at little bit at the usuall descriptions of cult members, what might be behind such a label.
It is my experience that the general public knows NOTHING about what cults are. They have no understanding off how mind control works, or what actually constitutes mind control.
I have again, and again run into the attitude that people who gets swallowed up in cults, chose it for themselves, are there because they want to be, and that you have to be really weak, or strange or both to actually get into a cult.
I have seen this attitude, or lack of knowledge even from mental health professionals, or people working within faith based organizations, such as priests, or other mainstream religious leaders.
When I speak to people about Mind Control I have the agenda to challenge that attitude. And to teach about How mind control does its dirty work. How our very strengths are being played on and used against us when someone starts using mind control techniques on us.
The fact of the matter is, cults are not for weak people. Being in a cult is very, very hard work, it is demanding like hell. It takes very strong people to be in a cult, and even more so to live with a cult.
Just this weekend I talked to someone who told me, I dont understand why I sleep so much now I have left the group. When I asked how long he had been in the group, and now out of the group, it turned out that he had been in for around 12 years, and had exited recently.
In those 12 years there had been a band on sleeping more than around 5 hours a day, with strong punishment should someone be caught sleeping more. No wonder this person was tired. And a whole lot of wonder that he actually survived that for 12 freaking years. A very strong person indeed.
If you are weak then you will be spit out very quickly due to not being able to pay for it, or in other ways not living up to what they expect of you.
It is typically strong, and very idealistic people who wants to make a positive difference in the world who gets swallowed up by cults.
When you go to read about, and discern for yourself whether or not you think you have been under the influence of mind control, I suggest keeping this in mind.
I also strongly suggest that you do, do this research. Even if you have not been under the influence of mind control, the best protection against being swallowed up in the future is to know what it is.
The reason for cults are mainly comprised of very idealistic people, is that cults play on ideals. No matter what ideals you have, I can promise you there will be a group out there playing on, and abusing those ideals. Even if the ideals are money, power, or fame. There are cults playing on that really well too. Those are however usually commercial cults, not religious cults.
The cult will offer you a faster, easier, better way to reach whatever ideals you have. They will promise you that you will reach those ideals as long as you do what they say.
People with strong ideals are many times as likely to be swallowed up by such a group, than those without ideals.
It is our strength, and ideals these groups play on, and feed on.
Weak people gets spit out, people with no ideals (if that even exists) will have nothing for the cults to play on.
There is NO SHAME in having been under the influence of mind control. There is, or should be no shame in having been deceived, abused, and having your good heart and ideals manipulated. The fact that you were in a cult, shows you have high ideals....
Another attitude I have met often is that people are there because they want to be there. THey have actually chosen it. I usually compare this attitude to the one saying battered women likes to spend time in the hospital and gets a sexual kick out of being beaten by their husbands. Thank God there has been a attitude shift to this in the last decade or so.
Part of mind control is very clever deception, which is planned to make you think you want what they are offering, however what you want, or what they make you think they are offering, and what they in reality is offering are two different things.
A third common misunderstanding I run into is that there are a few big, well known cults and if you are not a member of one of those, the cult descriptions doesnt fit your situation. Well estimates shows that there are tens of thousands small fringe groups which does fit the cult criterion. It is impossible even for the big cult watchers to list, or know all of them.
It is not about what such groups believe, it is about how they control and abuse their members. There are also one on one cultic relationships where one person in the relationship has perfected the mind control techniques.
I think it is important to recognize also that mind control techniques can be, and are found in less extreme form, and less organized form all throughout society. There are simply charismatic leaders who manages to find many of those techniques, perfect them, put them into a system, and bang you have a cult leader of whatever size it comes in.
So what lies in the term, Mind Numbed Cultist? Hmm.. Mind Numbed... what might be meant here? Well, being in a cult, in the extreme cases were people live with the group you do see those folks act like zombies. The abuse when you live with such a group is so extreme, and so constant that it becomes a necessary means of survival to isolate yourself deep inside yourself. For those who likes psychological labels it is called dissociation. Cults are perfect ways of learning this. In fact cults use both meditation techniques, hypnotic techniques, and abusive techniques to teach people to protect themselves in such a way.
That is why humans in cults often seem mind numbed. It is very sad actually, and I dont like using it as a way of mocking humans who has gone through this. God knows. I have been there.. and it hurts.
However, there are many levels of cult abuse, and even for those who has not experienced that level of abuse, there are still mind control, being controlled in our thinking and actions. The control might be less extreme, along with the less extreme abuse.
It is still cult mind control, it is still cult abuse, and it should still be opposed.
Just my two cents worth.
Malene